Never try to be better than someone else

“Never try to be better than someone else, always learn from others, and never cease trying to be the best you can be because that’s under your control. And if you get too engrossed and involved and concerned in regard to things over which you have no control, it will adversity affect the things over which you have control.”

A wise woman won’t do that and will only focus on what she is doing. Instead of spending time on others, you’d better spend more time on yourself, learn a new language, starting yoga class or reading a book. You will feel more confident and beatific. Happiness is a state of mind; not a state of size. And we can waste 90% of our lives being miserable because we disdain who we are!

Body weight, clothes, hair, makeup, these are constant issues in the lives of women. We worry about them and spend countless hours fretting over them. Stop thinking in that way, there is a saying goes that “A woman is beautiful for their cuteness, not cute for their beauty”. Just be the way you are, do what you think is right. Don’t hide yourself too much, it will make you tired. Be true to everything, people will motivate by you and like you.

Stop watching rail-thin movie stars and trying to attain the unattainable. Many of the same women you are trying to emulate are trying to emulate someone else! When you choose to only compete with yourself and not others, you place the responsibility of success on your shoulders, and at the same time allow yourself the opportunity to discover great contentment upon reaching your goals.